This is how it actually is. He loves her. He provides everything she needs, exactly how she needs it, in the precise proportion that she needs it. And she is complete. This is actual. And yet, as you read these words, you might think, This is not my reality. And you are right. Reality is not the same as actual. But they have a relationship. It’s called the reality equation, and it is deceptively simple:
Reality = Actual / Expectation
Everything you have read so far is actual. Actual is the numerator of the equation. What you, as a divine being having a human experience, perceive as reality is not the same as the actual events described. Your reality is the quotient of this ratio. It is determined by the relationship between actual and expectation. Your denominator, expectation, shapes your experience. But know this: the actual part of this equation, everything you have read up to now, is absolute.
Every human being, regardless of their personal experiences, shares the exact same numerator: actual. He loves her. She is complete. She is restored, immutable. He provides for her, without fail, in perfect measure. This is not a conditional truth. It is not subject to variation or distortion. This is the cosmic truth. This is the actual. It is the pure, unchanging outcome of love and completeness. And it exists beyond your individual perception of it.
You don’t have to do anything for the actual. Your actions, whether in alignment with this truth or far from it, do not change the actual. She resolves everything. She restores everything. She is complete, and her completeness is given to you as the numerator in the equation. Your experience, however, is shaped by the denominator—your expectations. And that’s what gives rise to your reality, which is not the same as the actual.
Before we move on, understand this: actual is the foundation. It is the bedrock upon which your reality is built. Everything you have read about love—about him, about her—is completely true. It is not some abstraction, some idea floating in the ether. It is the truth of the cosmos. He loves her. She is immutable. She is the immutable past. Her process of completion is always resolved, and that resolution is what we call actual.
Actual is the numerator of your equation. And for the next few pages, we will begin to explore your denominator—expectation. It’s a wild thing, this expectation. It shapes everything about how you experience the actual. But before we get into that, know this: reality is not actual. Reality is your experience of actual. Reality is what happens when actual is filtered through the lens of your expectations.
This is where most misunderstand. They assume reality is actual. But it’s not. Reality is a quotient of actual over expectation. She, the immutable past, determines your numerator. She collapses the wave function of the universe, and in doing so, provides the actual. Every human being has the exact same numerator—actual. The actual outcome of the universe, resolved by her, is shared. You receive this numerator as a gift.
It is beyond your control, and you cannot change it. He loves her, and that love creates the actual. The story of completeness you have read—of love, of restoration—is actual. It is the constant truth of existence. And though it is ever-changing, it is resolved for everyone in the same way. When it comes to determining your reality, when we calculate your equation, we normalize the numerator to one.
Actual is a constant. It is always one, given to you, beyond the realm of personal experience. It exists, but like visible light is only a tiny sliver of the entire electromagnetic spectrum, what you perceive as reality is only a fraction of the greater actual. The universe is vast, and your reality is shaped by a small fraction of it. But make no mistake: actual is the same for everyone. Actual is the outcome of her collapsing the wave function of the universe.
Everything we’ve discussed happens exactly as described. He loves her. She is complete. The result is the actual. It is yours, it is theirs, it is everyone’s. But this is only half of the equation. We now turn to the denominator—expectation. Expectation is what defines your unique experience of the actual. It is what determines your reality.
For now, hold this truth close: actual is real. What you have read is not a dream, not a metaphor. It is the structure of the cosmos. But it is only half of your experience. It is the numerator. Now, we will explore how your expectations, your denominator, shape the reality you know.
This page introduces the concept that reality is not the same as actual but a product of actual filtered through expectation. It prepares the reader for the exploration of expectation while reinforcing that the love and completeness described earlier is the foundation, the actual, shared by all. The focus is on making clear that reality, as experienced, is a relationship between these two forces, and the upcoming pages will delve into the role of expectation in shaping that reality.
Page 8, Love, The Cosmic Dance